We love easy little rules about body language. Crossed arms mean resistance. No eye contact means lying or shy. Stand like Superman and—boom—instant confidence.
It’s tidy. It’s memorable. It’s also mostly wrong.
Body language is powerful, no question. But it isn’t a magic decoder ring. Context matters. Culture matters. Personality matters. A smile can hide nerves. Strong eye contact can mask insecurity. And that famous “93% of communication is nonverbal” line? It’s one of the most misunderstood stats in modern communication.
The real skill isn’t memorizing body language and gestures. It’s learning how to read the whole person—words, tone, timing, context, environment—and spotting when those signals align… or don’t.
6 Body Language Myths You Probably Still Believe – Entrepreneur Magazine
In my Entrepreneur article, I fully break down six of the biggest body language myths and what the research actually says. If you want the deeper dive—and practical tools you can use in negotiations, leadership, and everyday conversations—read the full piece here:
And if you’re ready to move beyond myths and actually master this skill, my on-demand Body Language course walks you step-by-step through how to read signals accurately, project credibility, and avoid the common mistakes even seasoned professionals make.
Because body language isn’t about tricks. It’s about awareness. And once you see it clearly, you can’t unsee it.


